Everything You Need to Know About Social Skills from 6-9 Months

Your baby is interested in you and everyone else!  They are wanting to interact with other people and are learning more about themselves as well  The skills needed to interact with others and regulate their emotions are called social skills.

In this post I will give you information about what social skills look like and how to encourage social skills in babies from 6 to 9 months.  All children develop differently so know that if your baby is not doing the exact same things as your best friend’s, that is ok.  However, if you are concerned about your little one’s development always seek out the Early Intervention program in your area for a free screening or evaluation.

Infant Social Skills from 6-9 Months: What do social skills look like in a baby from 6-9 months? Check out this in depth guide of what social skill development looks like and how to encourage it with simple play activities. Find out what monthly milestones to expect with your infant from 6-9 months. No fancy lesson plans needed to teach your baby!

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Mirror Play


Your baby is becoming more aware of themselves and their reaction to mirrors is one way to see that.  Your baby will start smiling at themselves in the mirror.  If you have an unbreakable mirror (like this) they may interact with it by patting and touching their reflection playfully.

Separation Anxiety


Is your baby starting to notice when you are there and when you are not?  Separation anxiety typically develops in babies from 6-9 months.  They may show signs of this by crying when you leave the room even if only for a second.  If your child goes to child care, drop offs may be a bit more difficult as they become aware that you will be leaving them.  Stranger anxiety can also be displayed during this time.



Your baby wants to be with you and they may be showing you that by lifting their arms out to you.  This simple gesture lets you know that they want you and is an easy way for them to communicate that.  Your baby will also start waving “hi” and “bye” as well when coming and going.



Mirror Play


Mirrors are a great way for your baby to become more self aware.  When you are in the bathroom hold your baby up to the mirror so that they can see themselves and talk about what they look like.  Show them where there eyes, nose, and other body parts are.

If you are playing on the floor keep an unbreakable mirror (like this) out so that they can explore on their own.  You can also model for them how to make silly faces for them and label their expressions.  Take your baby’s hand and gently show them how to pat and touch their reflection.

Communicate With Them


How do people interact with each other in the daily world?  By talking!  You can do the same with your little one to help grow social skills.  Tell them about what you are doing.  If you are going to be changing their diaper, tell them.  While making dinner let them know what you are doing by narrating your tasks.

If your baby is babbling and jabbering at you respond to them.  This way they know that they are being heard.  You can give them words that you fit the situation in order to model vocabulary.  Label your baby’s emotions when they are having different feelings and label your own too.

Social Play


Your baby LOVES to be social with you and the people around them.  While changing their diaper make silly faces or sing to them.

If you are sitting on the couch with your baby let them explore your face and hair by gently touching you.   Wiggle your nose or stick out your tongue and watch their response.  Do you they try to imitate you?  Label your body parts and then theirs so that they can become more self aware and learn the vocabulary (a great way to encourage cognitive skills as well.)

Sing simple songs and finger plays with your baby to encourage imitation skills.  Show them how to wave “hi” and “bye” when you are coming and going.  Imitating gestures is one of the first steps your makes in their language learning journey.

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About Kayla ONeill

This is me and my beautiful bouncing baby boy! Before my little guy arrived I earned a Bachelor's degree in Special Education Birth to 21 as well as my Masters in Education. For six years I worked as an Early Interventionist serving children and families from birth to age three before becoming a stay at home mom to be with my son.

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