There comes a time in every toddler’s life when the looming presence of the toilet becomes as inevitable as growing one size too big for their favorite shoes.
Yes, potty training (actually I prefer to call it “potty learning”) — the milestone many parents both eagerly anticipate and dread all the same.
With so much advice floating around, it’s no wonder toilet talk can sometimes make you feel, well, a bit flushed.
But fear not!
There are gentle, stress-free ways to acquaint your little one with the porcelain throne, paving the way to a leap out of diapers when you’re both ready.
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Here are seven low-pressure techniques to ease your toddler into toilet territory.
1. Take the Literary Route
Stories have a unique power to captivate young minds.
Introduce the concept of using the potty through engaging picture books specifically designed for toddlers.
One of my favorite books is this classic by Mr. Rodgers ( you can see it here).
2. Screen Time Fun
It’s the era of screens, so why not utilize this to your advantage?
There are countless television episodes and YouTube clips that turn potty training into an adventure.
Shows like “Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood” dedicate episodes to potty fun, using singalongs and stories to teach good bathroom habits in a way kids adore.
You can see a fun clip from the show HERE.
3. The Power of Choice
Empower your tot by having them pick out their own potty or a training seat that fits onto the “big” toilet.
When children feel a sense of ownership, it can turn a potentially daunting experience into an exciting step towards big-kid independence.
4. Explore and Explain
Before the throne is their go-to, make the bathroom a place of exploration.
Show them how the toilet flushes, explain where it all goes, and, most importantly, don’t forget to emphasize that this is only for big boys and girls when they’re ready.
5. Casual Conversation
Talk about the potty in casual, everyday moments.
Be positive and play up the excitement of learning to use it, but keep it light.
Too much talk or pressure can lead to unnecessary anxiety.
6. Musical Melodies
Create a potty playlist with songs about using the toilet. Keep it educational but upbeat, like “Sitting on the Potty” by Super Simple Songs or make up your own fun tunes to sing while on the potty.
Music can elevate the mood and make the new chore feel like a celebration.
7. Make it a Part of Play
Include a toilet in your child’s playtime.
Toy potties and doll sets (like this), if you have them, are a great tool to familiarize toddlers with the idea of using the toilet.
Role-playing with dolls or stuffed animals can make the subject fun and non-threatening.
Each child will approach potty training at their own pace, so remember to be flexible in your approach.
Not sure if they are ready?
Make sure to download my free readiness signs handout HERE.
You can also grab my complete guide to start potty learning HERE.
By introducing the toilet as a friend rather than a foe, you’re setting the stage for a positive potty partnership with your tyke.
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Kayla O’Neill has a master’s degree in education as well as a bachelor’s degree in special education with an emphasis in early childhood education. She has been working as a developmental therapist with babies and toddlers in early intervention since 2012. She is also a mom with two young children.